I know what you’re thinking, but you know I’m right. At first, being single was freedom for me, I mean I could do whatever, not thinking of buying a gift, more like, living the life. I’ve been single for a year now or so and I can beat my chest and say it really sucks!!! Y’all know that there’s no way I won’t give you the gist before confessing to you why being single sucks, right?
First, I was really happy being single, I mean finally free from the whole negative sides of relationships. I dated someone for 3 months, and he was my friend’s brother. The whole liking thing was weird at first but then the story changed. He likes me was weird because his ex was freaking hot, I mean absolutely hot and I’m just one skrep (just there) girl. She was like every man’s dream girl. Well, they broke up but they were, nonetheless, friends, weird right? Lol, I’m indeed using this weird word. Back then, I do visit my friend but never really spoke to her brother, it was just hello and that was it. Until the day of his convocation which transformed everything. I was invited to the convocation by my friend and her mum which I accepted. We drove all the way to Benin Republic from Nigeria, I must say, it was a long ass journey but we did reach our destination. The ceremony had started already, so we arranged where we would sit and eat.
He showed up, greeted his parents and his sister and then looked at me smiling, I had to look back to check if I was the one he was smiling at. He walked up to me and said “Thanks for coming, and I really appreciate” and he hugged me before I could respond. Since then, he had been always on my mind. The warmth from the hug made me sweat and trust me I thought was the weather lol and that was how we started talking.
I started visiting my friend more often because I just wanted to see his face. From there, we got extremely close and then feelings came in. We both liked each other and we started dating but I felt uneasy because of his ex. The fact, they were still in touch and my friend really liked her. I just couldn’t tell my friend I was dating because I was scared of her reaction…let's leave it here for now.
First, I was really happy being single, I mean finally free from the whole negative sides of relationships. I dated someone for 3 months, and he was my friend’s brother. The whole liking thing was weird at first but then the story changed. He likes me was weird because his ex was freaking hot, I mean absolutely hot and I’m just one skrep (just there) girl. She was like every man’s dream girl. Well, they broke up but they were, nonetheless, friends, weird right? Lol, I’m indeed using this weird word. Back then, I do visit my friend but never really spoke to her brother, it was just hello and that was it. Until the day of his convocation which transformed everything. I was invited to the convocation by my friend and her mum which I accepted. We drove all the way to Benin Republic from Nigeria, I must say, it was a long ass journey but we did reach our destination. The ceremony had started already, so we arranged where we would sit and eat.
He showed up, greeted his parents and his sister and then looked at me smiling, I had to look back to check if I was the one he was smiling at. He walked up to me and said “Thanks for coming, and I really appreciate” and he hugged me before I could respond. Since then, he had been always on my mind. The warmth from the hug made me sweat and trust me I thought was the weather lol and that was how we started talking.
I started visiting my friend more often because I just wanted to see his face. From there, we got extremely close and then feelings came in. We both liked each other and we started dating but I felt uneasy because of his ex. The fact, they were still in touch and my friend really liked her. I just couldn’t tell my friend I was dating because I was scared of her reaction…let's leave it here for now.
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